Janet Hostetler, LMHC, CAP, CIRT
561-624-8819 ext 1 / janethos@bellsouth.net
3450 Northlake Blvd, Suite 212 Palm Beach Gardens, FL 33403

Returning To Romance



What determines the chemistry between two people?




• Why do we become attracted to the very people who will cause us so much pain?
• Why do you have the same arguments again and again and what to do about them?
• How to stop repeating old patterns
• Tools to transform blame and criticism into understanding, intimacy, and romance
• The 2 most common subjects that couples fight about and the hidden meaning behind them
• What successful couples do that is different


The biggest problem in relationships is that of misunderstood, manipulated, or avoided communications. The core skill in IMAGO Therapy is designed to correct this. Instead of criticizing and shaming the other for not meeting your needs and desires, you will learn how to listen, validate, and understand how your partner feels; and your partner will listen, validate, and understand how you feel as well.

Clear communication is the window into the world of your partner. Being heard is a powerful aphrodisiac.



Committed love relationships are the most prized and powerful of all human experiences and have the potential for the deepest personal healing and social change. In IMAGO Relationship Therapy, you will learn that everyone carries in their minds, outside awareness, an image of the type of person to whom they will be attracted for a committed love relationship. This is your IMAGO.

Your IMAGO guides you to persons who are similar to the caretakers with whom you had the most difficulty in childhood and who appear to have the qualities you lack-- so that you can become healed and become whole. Then you fall in love. All intimate relationships go through (3) stages:

1) Romantic Love
2) The Power Struggle
3) Resolution

This therapy will teach you to get out of the power struggle. Connection can be restored when you and your IMAGO choice become "partners" in the healing of your relationship and each other. You will create the relationship of your dreams! That's your third option and this therapy will teach you proven methods